I don’t know how she does it. But she does. And she never complains. And she never acts like she is doing any more than the rest of us. And even though I know for fact that 10 years ago if you would have told her she would have four kids, she would have laughed at you, it’s like she was born to do it. With a calmness that is basically just ridiculous. She is my beautiful, strong, wise friend—my confidant in non-hugging. And today is her birthday.:)